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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorce is hard because it should not happen. Two people enter into a contract between themselves, and in most cases God to remain together through good times and bad. Breaking that contract is an admission of failure. It is further compounded by the fact that the self serving needs of the parents to separate, rather than working out their differences, trumps the children's needs for a stable, loving environment with two parents setting role model of marriage and family. (despite whatever anyone says, divorce is not the best outcome for children, the statistics and studies are irrefutable on this).[/quote] Please stick to talking about your own shoes until you've walked a mile in mine. It's not always this simple and judgment like this doesn't help anyone, kids included. Be thankful that you've never been in a situation where you've had no choice but to divorce for the good of your kids. [/quote] I say this because my marriage was tested by a cheating spouse. For the sake our our children and our vow to work through good and bad times we worked through this test, and found the ability to forgive and move on. It was not as easy as divorce, but it gave our children and our relationship a chance to heal. I am glad that we were mature enough to realize that the entire family is affected, not just us. Too many selfish people choose to throw away their marriages rather than find common ground. Again, there is no refuting the statistics of children of broken homes and the damage a separate causes them.[/quote]
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