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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yikes, this seems complicated. I think just a short innocent visit with and old flame is no big deal, but this seems like more than that. You said you have "sentiments" about her and the fact that she is willing to meet you on the side of the road makes this seem sneaky and a precursor to an affair. The real problem is your terrible marriage. You should go to marriage counseling and fix it or divorce before you bust up your marriage and family with infidelity. Take the high road and end your marriage with dignity if that is where you are headed. I don't think you can blame this rekindling on your wife if you have been living seemingly content with the way things are going now, sexless and all.[/quote]

I agree with the above sentiment.

We have a great marriage, so I would be upset if DH had plans to meet an old gf without my knowledge. If he wanted her to visit our home, I'd be fine with it because 1. He was honest about it
              2. Obviously nothing is going to happen between them if I'm right there.
            
But I know my DH. He doesn't want anything to do with his exes. He did mention he looked up his last ex to see what she was doing (lives a few towns over) and mentioned it in passing. I wasn't the least bit jealous, but then again, THEY were in a sexless relationship and they ended it a few years before we began dating.
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