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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am going to disagree with some. I do not think she is being overly sensitive, I think many would react this way but most would not admit it. I am an example. I would never admit it hurts my feelings and would say "sure, go ahead" but deep down I would feel excluded especially if I am the one that connected them.

[b]The you look tired comment is an age old way of wanting to diss someone in a backhanded kind of way[/b]. I remember when I was younger and more immature saying it to someone when I really wanted to assault them with a more negative remark, this was a "safe" way of doing that. OP to turn this around is there a reason maybe SHE was trying to make you feel less than ,it seems like a double blow to me and maybe speaks to her wanting to hurt you somehow?[/quote]

I agree. What matters is not what she said but the intent and the affect. "Wow, she looks great -- I'll tell her she looks bad in my eyes." I already posted that some people have a way of doing this, no matter what it is they are actually saying. Do you feel this way regularly with her?[/quote]

PP here again. Plus, adding the "is that okay?" about going out to lunch with the other friend is clearly suggesting OP will not be okay with it. Personally, I think it's fine that they get together without OP, but If this "friend" thought it was harmless she would not have asked that. Clearly a dig at OP's feelings. Stay away from her.[/quote]

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