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[quote=Anonymous]I can't say it is a deal breaker or not because it really depends on the guy.  I have a friend that has been burned in relationships in the past when the guy has decided to go to school in another state or faced unemployment.  She just finished graduate school and had a stable job so it ended up being that they were at different stages of life.  It is possible that these guys ultimately weren't the right match anyway and school/job situation just made it happen faster.

I would look at the motivation level, how well you can communicate with each other and if you have similar values. In general is he a thoughtful person?  What is his relationship thoughts in general, not specific to you.  Kind of like the guys that decide there is no way they will get married before 30 and you meet him at 22. Is he planning to keep things light while he is in school ( I.e. No serious relationship or no thoughts of marriage while in school) and could you live with that and what about the reverse if he would have a serious relationship/consider engagement, could you live with that before he gets settled into his career? I think I would be cautious, but I would not necessarily rule it out.[/quote]

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