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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]   OP here. I've been avoiding reading here, but I'm glad I did because there are some really helpful posts. Thank you! I really appreciate hearing from people who have been there.

I do agree once it gets to the point of moving to assisted living I will have to let brother and sister know in some capacity. I'm going to read up on demetia. He's not going to to be willing to do an MRI any time soon even if a doctor tells him to do it, but if I get concerned enough I'll find a way to make it happen.

It is actually helpful to hear things get worse. I suspected that, but knowing this is common helps me to mentally prepare.

I've started lurking on some caregiver support sites. There is so much useful advice, but regardless of the site there is always someone who comes on gives these caregivers a massive guilt trip for complaining. I think venting is healthy.

I'm going to try to keep my sense of humor about all this. Some of the conversations I have with my parents are both upsetting and downright hilarious. Often I can keep things in perspective and laugh except for the days I have other things upsetting me or haven't gotten anywhere enough sleep.

Thank you again![/quote]

Your dad needs medical care. Stop trying to diagnose him on the internet. Take him to a good neurologist. He may be on meds or have nutritional deficiencies that are making his symptoms worse. Some of the issues could be treatable. Go to the appt with him and take notes. Get him to sign a form allowing you to discuss his care with the doctor.[/quote]

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