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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And what if your dad said "I haven't witnessed any accidents, hit and run or otherwise."? How would your DH keep up the ruse then?[/quote]

Our "plan" was for husband to go to bio-father's office, identify himself as a Blank City Detective and ask to speak with him privately.  Once alone, he would tell bio-father who he was and what he wanted - hand my bio-father the medical questionnaire our doctor gave us - and them tell bio-father he could tell his co-workers, secretary, etc. that this Blank City Detective wanted to talk to him about seeing a hit and run or witnessing some other auto accident.

It isn't a ruse - it's just a way to give bio-father a way to cover my husband's visit!

I really explained this badly - I'm sorry!   [/quote]

That's not at all how you explained it initially. In addition, if he has a wife he may not want to speak privately. Then what? This is just an all-around poor idea. Very childish that you would send someone to ask on your behalf.[/quote]

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