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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you and your mother are both extremely passive aggressive.  I can't count the number of times in your post that you alternatively told her to come and then to not come based on trying to manipulate her when you actually felt the opposite way but were angry.

Own your feelings, no matter what she does.  If she makes you angry, maintain your position "Mom, I'm upset about what's going on here, but I'd still like you to come to the graduation."  None of this "Well, I guess I'd rather you didn't come now since you don't really want to come."  I agree that you have acted as badly as her.  Stop delivering passive aggressive messages.[/quote]

OP here. I don't see what you're saying about not being able to count the number of times I told her to come or not. I wanted her to come all along until she sent me that long text about how she doesn't feel cared about enough. When she did that I felt very manipulated and didn't want her to go with that attitude.[/quote]

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