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[quote=Anonymous]OP- I get it.  I have a DH that has long hours and used to travel for it.  Your mind starts going crazy when some small things just start not feeling right.

I have overrided my gut instinct numerous times in my marriage because 1) I don't want to believe it 2) I don't think he'd actually do it, etc.

I'm learning cheaters are master manipulators (again the situation u describe isn't so alarming by itself so I'd just pay attention more closely.

I was told that if a spouse suspects the other of cheating the gut instinct is correct more than 90% of the time.

I am 18 years into a marriage and I'm dealing with this for the first time (at least I think it's the first time).

The crap he's tried to have me believe is incredulous.  Never before in marriage has he been so evasive and unwilling to give his whereabouts. Story keeps changing for this one night.  I can't even begin to know where I stand until there is some initial coup ability and transparency.

I have lost 6 pounds since Friday from stress and lack of sleep and I am a fit person that didn't need to lose weight. My stomach is now concave.

Though he complains how he can't sleep because I keep demanding answers.[/quote]

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