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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would never cheat on my wife, but if I am on assignment for a few months I would certainly go out and meet other people. Just to hang out with and talk, nothing more. [/quote]

You have to expect he's not going to be spending every night watching television alone. It's true-- you'll never know for sure if he's cheating, even if you asked him. You can ask him but it's a big can of worms, especially if he already suspects you're jealous. Based on what you said, he's probably not. If anything, he probably enjoys the attention from all the women, especially if he's had somewhat of a mundane life at home for a while. When you visit him make sure it's as positive an experience as it can be-- don't start up arguments over jealously or fight over other nonsense. He probably looks forward to seeing you but it will only leave a bad taste in his mouth if you end up fighting all the time. Then yeah, the other women will start to look better and better. Put yourself in his shoes-- if you were on assignment and he came to visit and made things unpleasant, wouldn't a bunch of interesting men who make you feel better about yourself start looking pretty good? [/quote]

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