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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No and I feel for you and your son but you keep doing stuff like blaming daycare for being "inflexible" when the problem is your kid. No daycare is going to put up with that, sorry. When you seem ready to take responsibility got some of it maybe you will get more sympathy.[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here
Not trying to come off negative but unfortunately he was kicked out of MCC and he went to Easter seals daycare in SS and took him out because they were so inflexible.

I mentioned he is 2e because its been difficult to find a good fit.  He ver sensitive, throws tantrums like a 3 year old, but intellculty he is way way ahead.  When people fitst meet him they think were nuts to call him special needs, until they watch him play and/or he doesn't get his way.  Then we are often told he's not a good fit.  So frusterating there aren't more Sevices for kids like him.[/quote]

"Inflexible" is code for "my kid hit the crap out of some teacher."

I'm pretty sure I've seen your posts before. Guess you still haven't taken any responsibility.[/quote]

OP again
Yup I'm post a lot. Things have been pretty awful and now I have to stop working in a brand new job.

OP again okay please enlighten me.  Please let me where I'm not taking responsibility.

1) He was born at a 1lb 1ounce and was in the NICU for 3 1/2 months.  I came ever day. (Due to severe preclampcia)

2) since that time he has been tested and received treatment from OTs , PTs special education, sensory integration, feeding specialist,  developmental psychologists,  and even a psychiatrists.

3) during these evaluations and treatment we have been given numerous tools to try to get him to stop hitting; in addition at 3 different methods of time-out and 2 types of reward charters, since he was 2 years old we were told he was acting this way because: he didn't have the language to ask for what he needed, he was over stimulated,  it was due to his infantile anorexia, "he a little guy so he gets warn out," he needs more sleep, he cant identify he's his emotions, and my personal favorite "he'll grow out of it."

3) his sensory integration is better, he's very articulate, and excellent at identifying his emotion, but doesn't know when he is hungry, but is growing.  Through all of this he has become violent.

4)Now that none of the tools we were given have worked for any extended period of time, he has started to see a play therapist and we have scheduled a neuropsychological examine for next week.

Please in what way am I not taking responsibility for my son.  If you have an idea that we haven't tried, I'm open, because his teachers, therapists,and my husband and I are fresh out of ideas.

Btw I say the Easter seals was inflexible because they refused to move his cot next to the wall instead between two kids.  He wasn't hitting teachers back then he was only 2.[/quote]

So he actually grew INTO hitting teachers, not out of it. Really helping your cause here.[/quote]

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