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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just the fact that you referred to it as "kid dumping" tells me what kind of person you are.[/quote]

Yes, OP, you should ask yourself what being part of a family means to you. The "kid" being "dumped" on you is part of your family, no? Are you an adult in their life, someone they can learn to count on to take care of them? Or not? Sad attitude. I speak as someone with no family help but I help others when they need it, no questions asked.[/quote]

It's not a sad attitude to not want to be at someone else's beck and call for free child sitting services.  Clearly you're one of the users.  Being part of a family doesn't mean providing constant free services to them.[/quote]

No, I am not "one of the users." If you had read my post, you would have seen that I said I have no help from family, but I help others when they need it, no questions asked.

There are plenty of families in this area that help each other out. i see them -- and I wish I had a family like that. That is how I am raising my kids -- to take care of each other, be there for each other. that's the rich family life I want for them when they grow up. It's not being used if it's mutually beneficial. Again, sad, sad way of looking at the meaning of family.[/quote]

I did read your post.  It must be so, then.  You said it on the internet, so you help others when they need it.  Got it.  
Which part of OP's post was mutually beneficial?

THe part where her sister is using her for babysitting, right.   :roll:[/quote]

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