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[quote=Anonymous]Been through this myself.  I think it's a lot of what the other PPs have said.  His insecurity, his ego, his jealousy, and in my case, my ex is just irrational.

My ex introduced a GF to my kids as a work friend and then she just showed up every time they were there.  They went away together (w/kids, etc.).  I only knew her name from my kids.  I literally cannot stand my ex, yet...there were these very annoying pangs of jealousy the entire time they were dating.  I was dating someone most of the time this was happening.

I introduced my BF to my kids after about 9 months of exclusive dating.  Ex went ballistic.  Still acting crazy even though I know he's dating someone again.  I just ignore.  If it doesn't relate to the kids, then I don't respond.  Had he mentioned something to me when he introduced the first GF, I definitely would have reciprocated.  But he set the stage, so I did what I thought was best, when I thought it was best.

My counselor says that it can take years (ugh!) to get over the emotions with divorce.  And a lot of people never get over it completely.  [/quote]

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