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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would look for an over 55 community. They will have activities that are appropriate for their age and interests, they will make friends and they will have staff that is equipped at handling aging adults.

You probably picture your parents just as they are until they pass away. But that is not the reality of aging. Very often you will not have the time or strength to handle the medical needs of an sick and elderly adult (even with money to hire a nurse to come in), which means your parents are getting less than adequate care. [/quote]

An over 55 community would be the best option.  Most have transportation to doctor appointments & shopping trips.  Activities & social interaction.

What happens if you go on vacation, would you feel comfortable leaving your parents at home alone or feel guilty?  It is great that you can be there for your parents but do you really want to be at their beck & call, that could get difficult for all of you.  If one of them were to pass, it would be nice if they were already settled into a facility so that wouldn't be a change to deal with.  [/quote]

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