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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think you sound depressed, nor do I think your husband sounds like a bad guy. You also sound like you want to lose the weight for you as you feel better when you weigh less. i think a lot of people are projecting their own situations onto you.

You both told each other a negative about the other person and how their health habits were impacting you. that is healthy communication. Not always done with the most tact when alcohol is involved but you should be able to tell the truth. Saying how you feel isn't controlling another person.

He may have been commenting on other people as a way of trying to be subtle so as to not have to tell you directly and hurt you. It isn't about him fat shaming, just his way of trying to point out the issue indirectly. You might do the same commenting on something to do with a friend or others in the hopes he gets the hint about something, In this case - it ended up being said directly.

Fat isn't a bad word anymore than thin is a bad word - I am fat. It describes me. [/quote]

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