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The daughter and her friend labeled it "cheating", so whatever that means to adults, she is behaving in a manner that in their world they define as cheating.  It's not the actual conduct necessarily, but the attitude she already has as a 14/15 yr old..that "cheating" is ok.

I'm not a fan of the word "slut" either, but the reality is that her behavior at such an early age will get labeled as such.  We can teach our kids to not label women, but let's be realistic, eventually, [b]even as adults, we use that term to label certain types of women.[/b]  Not saying OP's daughter is a serial cheater or that "talking/texting" to other boys is cheating, but in her words, in her world, her behavior may be typed as such.  It's her attitude about "cheating" at such an early age that is scary to me.[/quote]

No, we don't. You may or may not. I don't.

I agree that the attitude about being dishonest to people she supposedly cares about is not good. But it may not even be her true attitude -- she may think that's what the cool kids do, or she heard "all's fair in love and war" somewhere, or who knows what. [/quote]

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