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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would definitely talk to her about it. Not only is her reputation at stake (kids may start calling her a "slut" even if she is not having sex with the other boys), but cheating in general is just a bad thing.

You could start out by just talking to her about how her relationship with her BF is going, and maybe talk about how she might not want to get too serious with a BF now. And then ask, "are you seeing other boys..?"  That would also determine if she is comfortable enough with you to be honest with you.   I think you might want to also find out if she is having sex.

Sorry, I'm gonna be judgemental here, but IMO, a freshman in HS is too young to be having sex, and [b]coupled with the cheating, she sounds like a slut.[/b][/quote]

Aren't you sweet.

Cheating in a committed adult sexual relationship is one thing. Cheating in a high-school-freshman relationship is...well, who even knows what it is? It may be nothing more than that she is also texting two other boys. And if this leads to people slut-shaming her, then the problem is not her behavior; the problem is slut-shaming.[/quote]

The problem is both.  For a HS freshmen, maybe "cheating" is just "texting".  But the problem is she already has the attitude of cheating on her SO.  And in HS, if word gets out, that kind of behavior will be labeled a slut.  [/quote]

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