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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I hate to break it to you, but this ALL YOUR FAULT! You're I-don't-know-how-old but you have failed to separate from your parents.

You are way, way overdue. I know from experience because I could be your DW! My DH's family of origin did everything possible to break us up after they alienated all of his prior GFs, who quite honestly were nicer than me but also had the foresight to give up.

My FIL even chose to have a confrontation with us when I was on bedrest and two weeks away from giving birth to DC2 over my tendency to occupy DH's time.  I finally exploded at FIL, mostly due to the preeclampsia but really because someone had to put FIL in his place. After my tirade, FIL gave DH "the choice": him or me. Absurd on its face, given my condition, but FIL is truly one of a kind. This was the last straw for DH who complemented FIL on his timing. We left. FIL didn't visit the baby when he was born and we've only seen him for holidays and FIL's birthday (of course) since then.

My point: Grow the F*CK up already!  Tell your parents you're a man with a wife and family. Tell them to stand back. Then mean it.

Make your choice to be an adult.

Now read your kids a bedtime story and give your DH the night off.

Good night and good luck.
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