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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] If DH can't say it himself, warn him in advance that you will start to put your foot down and that the least he can do is shut up instead of sabotaging your efforts. Say: "I'm so grateful, MIL, but our house is far too cluttered and I can't accept anymore gifts right now. No, we're not going to eat that." Smile each time, use your friendly voice, and SAY NO. A hundred times per visit if need be. [/quote] This is what I'm doing now, and I can keep doing it. It's just weighing on me - it adds to my stress and I mildly resent DH for it even though I am really trying not to be like that. It fills me with dread to see her! I see other posters on the thread talking about me not alienating her, but what about her alienating me? Isn't this a two-way street where we're both adults and our preferences should be respected? If the answer is that MILs should just be placated, that's fine - that's why I asked :)[/quote]
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