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[quote=Anonymous][quote=NOVATransplant][quote=Anonymous][quote=NOVATransplant]Sounds like they wanted to see their new grandbaby and you couldn't be bothered to check your phone.  Sorry, you sound kind of bitchy[/quote]

Bitchy for taking a nap?  WTF?  [/quote]

No, the part for kicking them out of your house.  They now feel that they need to clear it with your husband before they can come over?  Yep, you've seriously damaged the relationship with them.  Lets hope they are the bigger people and accept the apology that you owe them.  Like other posters have said, you should be grateful that you have grandparents nearby who are so willing to offer to lend a hand so you can nap.  Trust me, a large percentage of your peers don't have that and a good percentage of them would give their right arm to have what you do.[/quote]

Um, no. It all starts off looking good with the first grandkid. Yeah, the grandparents want to spend time with the baby. BIT they came into another person's home unannounced and uninvited.

Don't give the OP a hard time for being upset about walking out to people making themselves at home when she is totally unprepared to see anyone [u]in her own home[/u].

And the fact that they're going through DH doesn't mean that OP has seriously damaged her relationship with them. It means they are taking a passive-aggressive approach and setting up OP to be the bad guy in the family story. They should talk to her directly as they should have before. And OP should take to them directly as an adult.

OP, set the boundaries now.[/quote]

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