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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm on maternity leave. DS is three months old, so some days I don't look at my phone for hours because I'm busy with him. Last week he went down for a nap so I figured I'd take a nap, too. Woke up twenty minutes later because DS was crying and I heard voices in my house. It was the in-laws. They took it upon themselves to come into the house and hang out.

I came out of the bedroom with a crying baby and they're all, " Didn't you get our text?" I had not. I was kind of pissed. Would you be? Should I ask DH to say something to them? They offered to take the baby but I basically told them to leave.

Now when they want to come over during the day, they call DH and ask him if I want them over. Weird? I think they know what they did was wrong.

Moral of the story: be sure to lock the doors. [/quote]

You went to sleep with the doors unlocked? Glad no one kidnapped your baby. I'm not being paranoid. Shortly after I left the hospital with my first child, it was all over the news-a lady kidnapped a newborn from the SAME hospital I was in. Thankfully, the baby was returned. The maternity ward was closed down. I've read where deranged women kill the moms (sometimes when pregnant) to kidnap newborns. It happens.

Most violent crimes occur because of unlocked doors and windows. (Our police dept gives an annual talk on how to stay safe- regarding your homes.)

Make sure they don't have a key.

Tell your DH to stop being the middle man (if you want.) They are clueless if they don't realize you have a crazy schedule with your newborn. They need to be accommodating, not you.[/quote]

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