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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry OP but best cut your losses now. He sounds like a miminal effort kind of guy (why 'couldn't' he move?). If he's off at 4 and you get home betwee 6 and 9 pm,why isnt he making dinner? this sounds terrible.

[b]anyway, I don't mean to sound judgmental, but I think 23 is too young to be living together.[/b] You ended up stuck and committed in a dead end relationship  when you should be out, meeting new people, expanding your horizons, picking up new hobbies, laying the groundwork for your professional and personal future. And you should be having FUN. going out withthe girls, getting asked out on dates by guys who might actually want to go on a bike ride with you and would make the effort to go to where YOU are. Cut your losses now, move closer to your job and move on. If he is at all committed tothe relationship, he should drive to see you half the time on the weekend (and have dates!). But I kind of think he's not even worth it. [/quote]

I agree with all the other posts that this guys sounds terrible. I would leave and not look back.

I also think that you shoudn't be living with a guy, especially at your age. (I recognize that many other people may disagree.) Live by yourself for a year (or more). Eat the food YOU want, watch the movies YOU like, have adventures that YOU choose. Once you meet the man you want to marry, you will view the time that you spent living with other guys as a waste. When you live with a man you are building a life with him, sacrificing your independence and compromising your identity.  Don't do that with a guy unless you know he will do the same for you and that the life you build together was meant to last forever, i.e. marriage. Oh geez, I sound like such a mom. [/quote]

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