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[quote=Anonymous]OP here...thanks all. I've tried to start small...trips up the street to the playground, an hour alone at my place, etc. He's never initiated it himself so it's fatiguing for me; it's also uncomfortable when he hasn't seen her for > 1 month to send them out the door alone together. He's not untrustworthy but has a signif lack of experience, which is why I'd like him to gain more. Re" "pushing him into it", I'm not, PP. If this is all he can offer, that's his choice, but I don't have to accept sh*tty behavior from him at the same time. I signed on to be her full-time parent, not his punching bag. If he visited every 5 week and was a nice guy, I could handle it. Visit every 5 weeks and be a jerk? Nope. Either he shapes up in his treatment towards me or takes her alone and does some real parenting. Seems fair to me. Will try some suggestions from the btdt posters...thanks to the dad who weighed in.[/quote]
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