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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I don't think it's unreasonable for a healthy mid-20s guy to be happy with one time a week and a girlfriend that's hardly ever there. If expressing displeasure about a situation is "whining" when a guy does it, well, I suppose folks will be asking why guys never talk when they're in their 30s. We did, but you said it was whining.[/quote]

Well, the girlfriend is 'hardly ever there" because she is not only working 12-14 hours a day but commuting--from the place where he has his job--2 or 2.5 hours a day!  What's his day like, OP? How long is his work day and how much does he commute? Does he have down time? Doesn't sound much like you do.

If he really wants to address the situation they need to find a new place to live, new jobs, or both. Blaming it only on the lack of sex and only on her misses out on the cause, and addresses only the effect.

If they had reasonable schedules, commutes and the sex was still incompatible, then its another issue. [/quote]

We live five minutes away from his job. He 'couldn't' move. I did this to better out relationship.  I'm trying so hard and I feel like he doesn't think I am

.my only down time during the week is my drives to and from. When I get home I usually make dinner or do laundry and then head to bed. He works 7-4, usually he plays video games after work.  He doesn't ever want to go outside or plan fun weekends so our weekends are usually him playing video games and whatever and me catching up on house work and laundry and doing outdoor things by myself. If I do make plans or ask him to go do things with me outside of the house he's usually not super thrilled the whole time... [/quote]

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