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[quote=Anonymous]OP I'm so sorry you have to listen to these nasty bitchy responses. What you are feeling is NORMAL. I assume you didn't tell the drunk bitch what you thought of her (and I agree even if she was drunk pushing her 2 yo she's an unfit parent) so I can't fathom why these nasty bs are acting like you are an awful person for posting honest feelings on an online forum.

It is unfair. Period. I read an article yesterday about two 22 yr olds who fed their twin infants water, rice cereal, and baby food because they were too lazy to keep up their food stamps (which would have completely covered the cost of formula) until one died and one was near death. Another mom in our area put her 2 month old in the microwave and cooked her to death. I'm sure the nasty bs don't have an excuse for those. There are just some unfit parents out there and I think you kind if just have to get a little angry at the unfairness and then realize it is what it is.

By the way, I'm hopefully nearing the end of my infertility struggles (was able to successfully have one and another on the way after years of painful trying). And I still feel the anger at the unfairness. But know that when you finally have your little miracle(s) (and despite the pps who gave up most do have kids either through help or adoption) you will be a better parent than you otherwise would have because of this struggle. I honestly think a lot of bad parents (not just unfit ones) had it too easy and so don't appreciate it. I realize that silver lining is far away but just trust me it will come. [/quote]

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