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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are able ultimately to bring a child into your home one way or another,  you'll have no room for resentment and anger. I read somewhere a statement by a woman far more charitable than I, who desperately wanted children,  that she refused to be angry and bitter because she wanted her future children to know that she had nothing but love and hope waiting for them to arrive in her life.

As someone who "resolved" her infertility by choosing, ultimately,  to live without children,  I can tell you that the bitterness and resentment will ultimately poison you and every relationship you have if you let it
. Is it fair that my 16 year old high school dropout cousin got knocked up accidentally, & I can't, even with extensive medical intervention? Of course it's not fair,  but I also wouldn't want to trade lives with her.[/quote]

Congratulations on your resolution in choosing to be child free. Can I ask why you still peruse TTC forums? (Honest question; I mean absolutely no disrespect.) I'm still in the infertility trenches and online forums have been such a huge support to me. Is it hard to stop frequenting them even though becoming child free was a choice?

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