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[quote=Anonymous]He's dating around, thinks of you as a good friend and obviously enjoys sleeping with you enough to see you repeatedly.  BUT is that enough for you?  How did he react when you brought this up and you had the friend talk?  How did you leave things?

I'm one of the PPs and this is what I expected when I said, unless you have discussed it, assume he's dating others (and yes, sleeping with them too).  So first and foremost -- please use protection and even that can't protect you from everything.  Second, if he is still interested in maintaining the current status, get yourself back online and you keep dating around too.  Eventually, one of you will find someone who wants to be with you exclusively (assuming that's what you want).

If you can't handle that, or don't want to, I agree to cut losses and move on.  When confronted with this situation, I did not enjoy the idea of the guy making dinner for someone else, cuddling on the couch and having sex with her.  I'm not good at sharing, and I wanted an exclusive relationship.  We cut ties, he came back a month or so later, apologetic about not being up front with me.  I thik we may have gone out one more time...but he was a lot less attractive when I thought of him as two timing me.  I just figured the other woman didn't work out or she was busy.  That's not a fun way to think of things.  So I moved on.[/quote]

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