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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been in your shoes numerous times with my in-laws.  8 years of marriage.  It will not get easier but you do have your husband backing you up which is honestly amazing! My in-laws are in their third time out for being hateful to me, and recently I kept urging reconciliation from my husband.  He kept saying no and finally admitted that they have not and will not contact him.  His last text to them was asking them how they were going to apologize or make things right with me. That was two months ago and nothing since. He has stated that since they aren't trying neither is he. Heck last time we went through this the mother emailed and called,often, but my husband ignored her for about 5 months until she and I ran into each other and worked things out, or so I thought.

Here is what I advise. I advise that you let your husband handle all contact at this point, as you two need to be presented as a united front. He is backing you up and standing his ground on how his wife should be treated.He is stating that he is not going to stand for this poor behavior towards you. Kudos for him! Huge Kudos!  You are essentially undermining him if you send a card in the mail to her. Once you *all* reach reconciliation, then yes it's fine to send a card, together, as a united front!

Whew, good luck! Those mils are peaches huh? :) [/quote]

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