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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you need to consider how you would feel if someone came to see you for several days.  Then left during the visit and announced you weren't welcome to come along because of how unpleasant it is to travel with you, how difficult you are, etc.  Is that something you could deal with?  Would want to have happen to you?

Whatever you dish out, OP, (even to your mother), consider whether you would welcome yourself.[/quote]

[b]Not the OP but this is exactly what you tell someone who has boundary issues. And, having cared for a parent physically handicapped like OP's mother, I can attest to the difficulties of arranging travel for them.  It's especially difficult when you have a limited amount of time to accomplish what you need to do.  Does it suck?  Yeah, it does but that's the grim reality of having those kinds of disabilities.  Have you every tried to lift a person with limited mobility that has fallen?  You risk injuring yourself and the other person.  I feel sorry for OP's mother but I can't fault OP.[/b][/quote]

+1000 The incontinence issues alone would prove quite difficult to manage in public restrooms when the person already has physical limitations.  [/quote]

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