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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I'm really surprised at the responses here. If I were you, no way would I let DH take the children. Sometimes you don't see a side to people before you marry them and have children. I understand that doesn't make your DH a bad person or a bad father overall but he is around his mother so do what's best for your children despite how angry he might get. [/quote] I agree with this. If your MIL is a trigger for your DH to behave abusively to his children, you need to be their advocate. Parenting that disregards the child's health to the extent it leads to emergency room visits is unacceptable. This doesn't mean your DH is a bad person. He sounds like someone who hasn't extricated himself from his childhood dynamics, and lacks perspective.[/quote]
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