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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This does not sound super smart, just super pompous.

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I completely, totally second this.  OP, he is not smarter than you.  He just likes to drone on with other bores about topics that they think make people around them uncomfortable.  If you are feeling awkward, it is not exactly completely accidental.  That being said, it is probably second nature to him by now so if he loves you enough he will try to be more inclusive.  You should maybe gently try to talk about it.

But it could possibly become a problem down the road if he thinks you are a dummy.

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I completely disagree with this. There is nothing wrong with loving art or history. Some people find that fascinating and aren't talking about it to make others uncomfortable at all. They really enjoy those discussions. Other people feel the same way about sports, or clothes, or food, or their kids or their jobs. They talk about things that are fascinating and of interest to them. This just sounds like a mismatch in interests. If art and history are a big part of his life and his friend circle and social life is built around it and OP has no interest in any of that it is not a good fit. [/quote]

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