Reply to Dating very intellectual men

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Dating very intellectual men"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This does not sound super smart, just super pompous.

[/quote]

I completely, totally second this.  OP, he is not smarter than you.  He just likes to drone on with other bores about topics that they think make people around them uncomfortable.  If you are feeling awkward, it is not exactly completely accidental.  That being said, it is probably second nature to him by now so if he loves you enough he will try to be more inclusive.  You should maybe gently try to talk about it.

But it could possibly become a problem down the road if he thinks you are a dummy.

[/quote]

This is the PP.  Lest someone accuse me of having issues with smart people, I do not.  My DH and I have 4-plus Ivy degrees, including HYP undergrad (for what that's worth).  At my age I have seen a lot.  I am almost twice as old as you, OP.  Philosophy people who can only hang with other philosophy people, etc. etc. actually have a deficiency.  It is called being a social moron.  That may be what he is.  Bookish or not, socially normal people know how to carry a conversation with most other people.

Recognize that your BF may have a social problem, and it may never go away.  The two of you may just stop talking one day.  If he loves to talk, then yes, this is a problem.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics