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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hire help. Scale down your lifestyle if necessary to afford it. Stay home with the kids for a few years if you need to. If you can coexist through the tough spots (years maybe) you will be better off than divorcing.[/quote]

Op here.  Staying home with the kids is quite possibly the last thing I'd consider doing.  I'd never get back in the workforce and would be devastated financially if we divorced.

I suggested hiring someone to come in for four hours on the weekends to help, but DH refused.  We do have our house cleaned every other week.[/quote]

Why did he refuse? What would his side of the story be?[/quote]

Seriously! What is his reason for not wanting to do that? It seems like a great solution - I am really in favor of paying to fix problems, when possible. And this seems like one of those times that each of you having some time to yourself, every weekend, could go a long way toward making you happier.

Anyway, he sounds like he is being a dumbass. How can it be easy for you to be with a 4 year old and hard for him? Does he think that women come with magical powers that make being with a kid easier than it is for a dude?[/quote]

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