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[quote=Anonymous]OMG OP. I have written about my exact same situation many times on this forum. Its been HELL.

My husband finally got a diagnosis of depression and ADHD, and finally got some meds that have leveled him out considerably. But he can still be a real ass- self righteous and self pitying. And he is still in denial, and has lied to therapists, and the whole nine yards. But with medication, I have seen glimmers of the person I know begin to emerge. I dont know what it means, or if it will be enough to save the marriage. But its definitely more than I ever expected. And it took the real threat to divorce, which has not been taken off the table yet at all.

His verbal and emotional abuse came on over a period of time. I think he is trying to change but its going to be such a long haul.

Its been awful OP. ive felt so alone. People here have been pretty kind- and Ive found others in the same point. I wish there was a way we could talk but privacy is so important to me and no doubt to you as well. Counselors are almost useless for this kind of ONE SIDED PROBLEM. I know ALL about that. THey all see what is going on and are powerless to help.

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