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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What has worked for us is a diagnosis of a mental health disorder, proper meds, and then counseling to understand the various reasons to carry around so much rage, the reasons it gets acted out, the triggers, and the tools to recognize when it's about to happen and nip it in the bud.[/quote] +1. He needs a psychiatrist (MD), not just counseling. If he's not willing or able to consider meds in addition to regular counseling, I agree with the other PP that you need to consult with a divorce lawyer and get your ducks in a row. I'm sorry this is happening to you. My father was like this and I am grateful 30 years later that my mother got us out. I've gone through two bought of therapy to deal with repercussions of his behavior on me. You do need to protect your children. I still remember how terrifying my father was to me as a child, because you never knew what would set him off. [/quote]
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