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[quote=Anonymous]Male perspective here. I recently stumbled into something that had the potential to become an emotional affair out of the blue. A childhood acquaintance connected with me through social media which lead to an email exchange which over the course of a couple of weeks became successively more personal and emotional. I learned that she divorced many years ago. If there’s such a thing as “chemistry” that can develop in email, it was there. We have a lot in common and there was an obvious connection/attraction. I was careful never to cross the line and complain about my marriage. She finally put a stop to it by acknowledging things were becoming emotional for her and that it was not okay. I agreed. This whole thing sent me into soul-searching mode. I recognized where I was not putting enough work into my 15+ year marriage. I realized that the energy I put into connecting with this person should have been spent on my marriage, my wife, and my children. I was lucky that she stopped it and that she lives thousands of miles away. Going down this path particularly with someone you work with or encounter on a regular basis is fraught with peril.[/quote]
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