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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For someone who is in a marriage that is for the most part OK, no infidelity, no abuse, etc......but just really unhappy and just don't feel &quot;in love&quot; anymore (25 years later). [b]I enjoy my time alone more than with him[/b], etc.....he is a difficult person to get along, very grumpy and moody, and i just don't have the tolerance (or desire) to put up with it or try to work it out with him......how do you know if you should just grin and bear things, knowing they could be much worse or know when its time to recognize it will not get much better and resign yourself to a lifetime of part time happiness.

The upside is he is an excellent provider, very well to do/successful so we live a very luxurious lifestyle but i know its not everything (though it does make life a lot more comfortable). Any sound advice or experiences you want to share that may shed some light on my situation. No I have not talked to him about how i am feeling because it would result in a major blowout and I am not up for it.[/quote]

I think you just nailed it right there OP.

In a nutshell, if you are much happier being alone than being w/your mate, that is a true sign that the marriage is done.

A partner is supposed to bring added joy to your life. He is supposed to benefit your life in a [u]positive[/u] manner somehow.

If you feel like your life has gone from POSITIVE ------&gt; NEGATIVE, then you must take the bull by the horns and leave this situation if you really want to get your life back again.  :? [/quote]

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