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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anyone here relate to the feeling that divorce, while you made a conscious decision to go through with it was never really a "choice."

For me, my ex essentially did nothing and lied about many other things for years. I'm upset that it feels like he robbed me of having a cohesive family. I know it's not logical since I left, but it feels like I had no choice. I would not have chosen this life, ever. He sure had me fooled from the beginning.[/quote]

Yes.  He wasn't brave enough to leave me so he just lied, cheated, and otherwise acted like a dick until I finally filed for divorce since he wouldn't.  Yes, I feel robbed.  I am angry on behalf of our children and it sucks to see how we struggle because he chose to be more concerned with his own needs and happiness than with his kids.

I think of it like a self defense killing.  You didn't want to pull the trigger but you were forced to.  I was forced to pull the trigger on my divorce and it makes me angry.  [/quote]

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