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[quote=Anonymous]To be honest, married people aren't always aware they are drifting into an emotional affair. Falling in love doesn't always feel the same way. I agree that couples should establish rules about behavior with other people. To label some activities acceptable and others off-limits. It's harder to establish rules about feelings that could be totally platonic with one person, but tip into romance with another. If you fell for your husband because he was funny, are you not allowed to find any other male humorous? If it was DH's intellect that made your heart flutter, are you supposed to convince yourself all other men are morons? Judging by my partner, I find dependable and honor-bound to be the most attractive trait of all, should I decline to interact with any males who are good husbands?[/quote]
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