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[quote=Anonymous]Agree that you need to step in and talk to your mom. Part of it could be generational. He has taken charge and she goes along with it. My mom was a SAHM most of her life, has minimal education and has deferred to my dad on all financial matters. The difference here is he has carefully explained how to handle things like his pension, etc when he dies (she is younger and healthier and will likely outlive him) Your mom needs to know what her options are. If the house is underwater I hope her name is not on it. There should be retirement funds in her name since he likely does not have a pension. He needs to be taking care of that before spending discretionary income.[/quote]
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