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[quote=Anonymous]I know women like your wife. I think your wife also eats the leftovers. She also inconveniences herself so that the kids are not inconvenienced. She feels that if parents put themselves first then they are not being good parents. Her idea of parenthood is to be self-sacrificing. AND maybe she is angry with you because she feels that you do not put the kids first when you do not want to put yourself last. I think what you need to let her know is that - 1) Your kids will not be equipped to handle the world if they are never inconvenienced. 2)Your kids will not know what a good relationship is if their parents do not have one. 3) Your kids will not know how to minimize conflict if they do not know how to share (divide the damn pie in equal parts so that everyone gets a piece). 4) Your kids will not know how to pull their weight if only mom makes the Easter feast and everyone just says a "thank you". How old are your kids? 2? AND maybe some of her feeling that you do not put the family first is valid if you took a snooze and she slaved. Just saying. 5) [/quote]
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