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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, there is an awful lot going on there OP. I'm sorry. I can see how your original post is just sort of a metaphor for everything else. I don't see things getting better for you based on what you posted without therapy. I can't imagine how she'll treat you after the kids are out of the house and she doesn't have them to "hide" behind. [/quote]

The irony is when my business becomes successful, and our friends husbands start to get laid off in their fifties she may see that while life has been challenging it may have all worked out. Yes, my sense is that we will live like roommates after the kids are gone, or get divorced. I get angry because I see all the challenges my folks have dealt with, the challenges others deal with, the fact that gratitude is necessary in life. So, we have bad times, bad times don't last. But my fear/sadness is that by the times the bad times are over, the love will be gone. Its partly my fault as I am willing to take risks and I realize now my wife does not like risks. She should have married a civil servant, with a very stable job. But she is also very materialistic and she wants what she wants. As do I.[/quote]

Um, then she should have made a choice to control her own destiny and get educated and put that education to work.

Look like you are OK being married to someone who only loves you when you can support her lifestyle and if you can bring in the coin again, you will be OK with the fact that you have been used and played.[/quote]

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