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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I go with friends it's just to hang out with them - not to find guys or hookup. [/quote]

+1. If this is an infrequent event, not every weekend, it's absolutely fine. BUT, if you know that she gets drunk (so assuming low inhibitions) during this outings then you might have reason to worry. I don't have statistics but from everything I've heard, most affairs, or hookups for married people don't start with meeting someone in a club but from people one meets during routine activities: work, the local coffee shop etc. [/quote]

Agreed. Work is far more dangerous to a relationship than a club. When my DW goes out dancing with friends, they dress fairly conservatively, even though they're all pretty much smoking hot. I feel like there's dressed to have fun at a club vs dressed to find a man (or woman). Even still, they always attract a ring of men... I'm sure it feels great to be flattered with the attention and have fun at the same time. We all appreciate this; harmless flirting from the soccer moms or at the bookstore, or at a club. But for a mature adult, it won't change how your spouse feels about you. [/quote]

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