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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Very much trolling.  No parent writes about her 11 year old giving a "seductive" face that she wants to "do it."

I think some kids are bored on spring break. [/quote]

I had to write it that way because that is the way it IS! I get uncomfortable thinking about it myself. But how can I write about this in a nuanced form? I need suggestions. Maybe you could rewrite it for me so that everyone would get it.
BTW, I thought I would be attacked for saying that she is not very bright, in this DC environ. where everyone's kid is super smart. [/quote]

OP, you sound a bit unstable and immature. Are you jealous of your daughter's looks? Are you insecure in your own appearance? It is totally inappropriate to sexualize your daughter's expressions and even suggest that they give the appearance that she wants to "do it." You're assuming that men attack young girls because the girls gave some look towards them. That's not how it works. Predators look for opportunity--a trusting parent that doesn't question alone time with their child. As others have mentioned here, there is a greater likelihood of a predator being known to the family versus a contractor or repairman.

[b]If you need something to do, go get a copy of "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker. Read it cover to cover[/b].[/quote]

Also, "Protecting the Gift" (same author) about protecting your child.[/quote]

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