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[quote=Anonymous]Also, besides counseling it might be helpful to consider finding an estate attorney who is good at mediation. All concerns will get addressed, but they will also help get past the emotions to figure out the most viable solution. Good luck, OP - that's a hard spot to be in. FWIW, DH and I love our parents and siblings very much but still didn't think they would be the best match for DC and have named (and willed, discussed with family, etc.) good friends of ours who would make sure that in the event they were ever her guardians she would still have as similar a life to now as possible plus see both sides of the family. They get us and we trust that she would be in good hands. If either of you have an "oh hell no" reaction to a choice, the other needs to hear that and learn more about it, even if it gets hackles up. This is between you two right now, but ultimately not about you. Hugs.[/quote]
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