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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get plenty of life insurance so that money is not a factor in the decision. Then for god's sake, make some friends! Both of the options you've presented sound miserable for your children. I usually try to take posters at face value bc I understand that you know your own situation, but I find it hard to believe you don't have a cousin, girlfriend, family friend, etc. that you could ask. How do you get through your whole life without having a single close relationship outside of your husband and your parents??[/quote] There's a big difference between having close friends and having a potential guardian of those friends. Most all of our siblings/friends have an average of three kids. People need to be able to raise another kid if it comes to that. OP, I'd suggest neither sets of parents or if you do, draw up a shared custody plan. You and your DH sound like you need counseling at any rate, so I'd go even without the custody issue.[/quote]
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