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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks everyone, I am beginning to get over it. I just had to put it out there and realize how silly I was to even feel this way. I had no one to turn to but my husband because I am ashamed to admit that I feel this way to my other friends. So I don't really have a voice of reason but my husband in this regard. I don't feel possessive at all over this friend, but I am not that type to befriend and invite friend of a friends out without considering how my friend will feel or inviting my friend out as well. Anyways, the world would be a better place if ppl had consideration for one another.

Another poster was right, I can behave a certain way around my friends but not my in-laws or tell my friends things and not my in-laws. I don't want to be judged for any reason and the problem with most in-laws is that they will judge. [b]I realize now that I lost a friend bc she wasn't much of a friend to begin with and not because I lost her to a person I didn't think highly of or respected (which is another post for another day)[/b].[/quote]

You have every right to feel excluded by both of them.  And the fact that the friend is also the godmother makes it more awkward.  Your lazy SIL should go seek her own friendships instead of competing for yours.

I would move on and make new friends.  Like a PP said, she probably wasn't a good friend anyway--she sounds desperate.  [/quote]

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