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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You've been married for 15 years, and you know he is an idiot with money. Why on earth would you give him the task of booking a vacation??? of course he would mess it up. Duh. Sounds like you love the drama and need something to yell about. [/quote]

OK, color me a dumbass.  I have been traveling and working Mega hours and was hoping a grown man could make an adult decision.  [/quote]

No, you set yourself up for this one.  You know he sucks with money.  You can't give him a credit card and hope for the best.  I have the same sort of marriage, but recognizing my spouse for who she is, I deal with all of the money matters.

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I tend to agree with this. What made you think he'd handle things any differently than he has previously? You didn't. After 15 years, there wasn't any logical reason to believe he'd deviate from his pattern. You may have told yourself you hoped for something different, but you knew that wouldn't happen. Since you're reacting as if this is the last straw, maybe that's what you wanted. [/quote]

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