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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, I replied a couple times on the other thread.  But this scenario happened to me a few times.

One guy was single, but looked nothing like the profile picture.  That was not a model, just an attractive guy.  Profile was normal enough for me to reply.  We emailed back and forth and then he surprised me with the real pictures.  Not attractive to me and I'm not up for liars.  It said he had no confidence to me, was hiding something, had already taken advantage of this random woman on the internet, etc., etc.  I told him no thanks and he pursued and pursued.  Turns out he want to hook up (I assume maybe he was married) and wanted me to sit on his face.  So yeah, no.

I also had a married guy ask if I would hook up and said his wife was ok with it.  I think that happened 2x actually.  I had another guy who I IM'd with several times, turned out to be a whack job and I can't believe I spent any time talking to him b/c I don't think he wanted to actually go out on a date ever.  But that was my fault, not his and lesson learned.

Yes, I think there are lots of weirdos, players and everyone else online.  There are also lots of nice, normal people like you.  I figured out the online dating thing on my own -- and there were some ups and downs.  Rather than saying you are immature, I think you're smart to ask questions.  You are certainly getting the answers here. I've always been naive when it comes to relationships, even though I am not like that in other areas.  I'll cut you some slack![/quote]

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