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[quote=Anonymous]I think you need better support. You are not supposed to be policing his drinking where he asks for permission and you decide how much he can have or if he can have it at all. It doesn't sound like he stopped drinking for himself at all, but rather because you told him to and he does what he is told, similar to him asking if he can or can't. This sounds like a very unhealthy dynamic in the relationship where you treat him like a child then has acts like a child..can I? can I?, can I have one more, just one more please? And to the poster you said you don't have to worry about suicide - blatantly wrong. Substance use and abuse plays a significant role in many suicides, and many people with addiction kill themselves. Doesn't mean that a suicide gesture always means an attempt but to say alcoholics don't kill themselves....incorrect.[/quote]
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