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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you are not responsible for his drinking. If he asks whether he can drink tell him exactly that. If he asks whether you'll be "mad" about it, tell him honestly that you don't like the choices he makes when he's drunk or hungover and that those choices often make you mad. But the teality is that only one of two things can be happe ing here: 1) you are a control freak who has arbitrarily decided to gaslight your husband and those around him into thinking he had a drinking problem. The best thing you could do for him in this case would be to leave him. 2) you are married to an alcoholic who doesn't think he had a problem and is willing to change only under unhealthy (power struggle dynamic) circumstances. The best thing you could do for him would be to leave him. I think the answer here is pretty clear.[/quote]
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